Almost everyone knows someone who is affected in some way by addiction. If you didn’t, then you do now right now. I’ve had my blog up anonymously for over a year, but I’m taking a deep breath and posting it today to share it with the hope that it will reach more people who could possibly benefit from it. You may see a bum on the street with a brown paper bag, and have a pretty good idea that he is an alcoholic. But how about the mom sitting at the PTA meeting next to you or watching her child’s soccer game in the stands with you? She may be just as miserable, if not more so. We all have our struggles and crosses to bear— whether its depression, anxiety, addiction (of any kind—alcohol, food, drugs, gambling), an abusive relationship, an unhappy marriage— but it’s never too late to turn things around. As one of my favorite writers, Brene Brown, says: “Loving ourselves through the process of owning our story is the bravest thing we’ll ever do. If we own the story then we can write the ending.” Working on owning my story is one of the best things I have ever done for myself.

The blog is intended to be a humorous but heartfelt journey about a suburban mom through recovery and sobriety into a better life. Post, share, comment. Read it and weep, and hopefully laugh.  -Martha Carucci

“If it’s sanity you’re after, there’s no recipe like laughter”—Henry Rutherford Eliot

4 Responses to “About”

  1. brunie September 4, 2013 at 12:46 am #

    Very touching and so true…..Real friends want what is best for us!!!SOBRIETY has been a blessing for me, my family and my friends (old and new)!!! Good seeing you today and thank you for sharing your blog!…CSI 7

  2. Christy June 25, 2015 at 10:57 am #

    Martha, you are amazing! What a gift you have of being vastly real and in tune with your disease of alcoholism. What a blessing you are to myself and others as you share your recovery journey and this piece is proof of that. I particularly like the explanation of “The Perfect Storm”. How brilliantly you explained just how tricky this disease is. This alcoholic takes this to heart. We must be ever vigilante in safe guarding our sobriety and doing whatever it takes to keep walking strongly on our path of recovery. Exceptional piece AG.

  3. Lisa May 24, 2017 at 12:34 pm #

    Thank you for sharing – just saw u on WGN midday – can relate to your journey! 😊

  4. Insights from the Rooms May 19, 2019 at 11:34 am #

    Glad to see that you turned your blog posts into a book. I recently did the same thing. For me this only could have happened because I was sober
    Be well

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